A lot of the guys might introducing themselves at this age as if they having a family, like 2 or 3 kids, because Jewish family has 5 or 6 kids.

I don't really know if the guys lies to bring other dates included, however your stability sounds like, you cared too much the social occasion, you don't really have a value, the way how they define the girls, and many guys will tell you never that sex parts to imagine they are into that, or they loving you, they knew the money consequence whom you are.

But let's say they seeing you on the first date, they turning their lies in thousand ways, I seen that in the movies, I did. Sometimes its not really a lie, some guys some family has some shared custody, sometimes for any reason, there are youth, some guys, some faith, some adoption, you want to turn any human being into a dust formats, and he is the one paying you and that kid, whichever he imagined....

In this dating game, you meant you truly just be with him, that one guy? 

One guy? Not looking around? Take care of the house hold? He never watching you cook, or you imagine it will never get to that step? The very first impression? The guys must be really stupid to hold their own money together.