The guy's in some norm sense, maybe just judging by that talking tones, any topics hearing inside their brain and soul to sound like the family household binding to = the only jobs its the family bind household. The house, the home owner program, and the BF's kids and daughter-in-laws + their first marraige kids grown up.

Everyone running around keep proving their parent's worth. 

Did I say I have to make my own money, becasue that bf isn't meaning our relationship were base upon his money, but his entire family troubles? We just sit there listening, or he talks never stop. He is their both son's father.