You UB just need one of you like Fatima those kinid, very big mouth and throw entire emotional baggage onto that One Judge. He or she may not knowing anything and you already ahead of your time. Meaning...you all will be locket inside a locker forever tight, and suffocate

That is what you really trust each other for.

One person, not to say, you are all like that. They didn't come in knowing anything, you really present yourself like you know everything. You got the full picture wrong.