Your personality its very very rigid. Very stern on your faces, and you wish other people to believe that is your presentation. So in the real job world, a lot of more stablize manager, they will have tno style other than that jobs and delivers. You are not going through them, you are getting through your own life !

If you just understand that, sometimes if you know how to saying the things its at their jobs, you make everyone's life a lot easier, but you didn't really wishing to do that. You could just smile yourself, and that has nothing to do with the guys or the girls. Its just if....

1. If a guy its near by distinguish the girls like you.

2. They either always know that type of the girls like you are the trouble, or 

3. There are different words they are using only to themselves. 

Understand?

You like the guys for commenting inside his brain space like that? I never stop you to imagine at the 40 years old. There are just a lot more other packages also at the 40 years old, some has the house, some clean the house, some capable to look a mature women talking in that sense, to "get on with life", meaning foster each other kids, knowing the holiday coming up, its the gift wrapping, the food finding, or making the food, display the table, all that?