With nick, we never have a gathering that much. And he speaks Italian....so he friends with an indian couple, he is the host, so he keeps talking.

His sister come, once. He host them.

His kids come, he host them. 

They are much older so I never need or require to dominating any space or time right there. Meaning not one word I say, he keeps saying it.  Now because I going again...this is not the language I understand.....they keep talking I cannot understand that language, really.