I think there is a reason you girls like to reading the book, not the real human talking, and in public or in private, or real real real.....so what do they reading the romance in the book?

The adjective terms? 

To you girls, I used to say....the guys cannot eat in front of you. Not just that. They cannot smile, they cannot laugh, they cannot make a fun conversation, they cannot make a business, they cannot just raise up a spoon on the table without looking at you through your eye glasses to knod a common ground agree "this is how you behave". 

Where I used to be at..... I just didn't tell you the details of it. I omit it.