You need something, so you saying you show up ....but that is not usually how your daddy or mommy when they planning out a holiday trip or a holiday dinner to gather whom join together with you.

If you having your dad or your mom to plan out an event, you feel such a relief, that responsibility is on them. Why don't you just leave them alone, they organize their own perfect hair due to their own age, not everyone else are dead. Even if they are in the fighting spirits, and seeing you just minding your own business too often, i think somehow they know you are way too busy for them to show up.